U.S. Army veteran finds new purpose through the Wounded Warrior Project
TAMPA, Fla. - Saying thank you. That was Mark Lalli's struggle for years after surviving a military helicopter crash in 2007.
He knew that the pilot focused the crash landing on his own side, giving his life for the chance of saving others on board.
"How do I say thank you to someone who gave their life for me? How do I say thank you to someone who gave me a chance to live?" asked Lalli. "I've got to live. I've got to move forward."
He joined the U.S. Army after 9/11 and was stationed in Italy when the crash happened during a training exercise. He worked as a Black Hawk helicopter crew chief, so he knew what the pilots were doing when the flight he was on experienced an "unrecoverable malfunction."
Six of the 11 service members on board died, including the pilot, but Lalli and four others survived.
He received serious injuries – from a traumatic brain injury to multiple broken bones and paralysis, but he had the incentive to live due to the brothers who didn't.
Mark Lalli with one of his children
Throughout his rehabilitation, he focused on that gift of life and those who didn't survive. After rehab, he was gifted a handcycle to work on his strength and conditioning.
"It sat in my garage for the longest time," he admitted, but following the pandemic, he realized that something had to change.
"I took my bike for a ride, and things haven't been the same since," he shared, "That's what's kept me going physically, emotionally, spiritually. That's been the best healing."
He has been involved with the Wounded Warrior Project since retiring in August 2010. Recently, he participated in the Washington D.C. Soldier Ride. Lalli learned that riding for fun is one thing, but the Soldier Ride is entirely different.
"The physical aspect of the hand cycle is using your entire upper body... the mental aspect, the hills, were a lot," he recalled, "The best thing about it is getting to ride with other guys participating."
In that brotherhood, he found a renewal of purpose and a way to honor those who gave their lives so that he would live, and he was not the only one.
"To have that many warriors out there on the road.... it was very powerful... strength in numbers," he exclaimed.
This renewed purpose and awakening of a passion for supporting fellow military veterans have made all the difference in Lalli and his family's life.
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